My kid sister and I recently had an interesting conversation which involved inspiration and the important point I left with was this ~> don't go looking to be inspired, BE INSPIRING!
Too many of us, myself included at times, are constantly scouring our friends, the internet, our world, etc, looking for something inspiring... we want to feel that invigoration, a new found motivation, the hope of a brighter day and tomorrow. I understand, most of us do, we really get it at a gutt level... but, is looking for inspiration the best way to find it?
Have you ever had a friend say "I'm bored," "this is boring," or mention that another person is "boring?" Well, what is boring? I am tempted to say "boring is as boring does!" If you are saying that, then YOU are probably allowing yourself to be bored (and boring)! Almost every moment of every day is filled with wonder and delight, you just have to open your eyes and your mind to it. Nothing is "boring," but we may just be. And, likewise, nothing is uninspiring, really... only we can be (but not really, really!!).
I am sure there is some kind of confucius saying, or taoist truism, which relates, but I do not know one, except to say... you are what you are, and you see what you see. What is, is. If you really want to be inspired, BE INSPIRED and INSPIRING! Is this making any sense yet?
William Glasser, in his book "Control Theory," made note of an extremely strong association between what we think and what we exhibit physically. This mind/body relationship is above and beyond a normal pavlovian response (classical conditioning) or placebo effect, but is a real and measurable physiological response to what we think and how. What you think becomes you. Glasser makes this critical suggestion, consider your emotions as verbs. You are not in love, or have love, but are "loving." You are actively choosing to love.
We are not depressed. We are actively choosing to depress... we are "depressing," in a sense (this is not to be confused with a physiological/chemical or clinical depression, that is real and much more serious). Well, there is no bored, just choosing to bore, or boring. And, perhaps you can see where I am going with this... we are not inspired, or uninspired, we are choosing to, or not to, inspire... we are inspiring.
It has been a long time since I woke in the morning with a BOUNCE in me, one that seemingly popped me out of bed, wanting to just DO SOMETHING wild, and crazy, and fun... and, inspiring. When I was in high school, during the winter season, I used to wake up on saturday mornings and could not wait to go skiing. I LOVED to ski. Well, I have not skied in years... although I still love it, but I cannot remember waking up feeling that energy and excitement since then. There have been moments, to be sure, but not something consistently motivating.
Well, I woke this morning and BOUNCED out of bed, excited for this term in school. When, oh WHEN, is the last time that happened, if ever? I feel inspired... no, let me rephrase and reframe that, I AM inspiring!!! =Þ
Realize it, choose it, be inspiring! Do it now, there is no other time better than now.
~REN